My slave-partner never had his butthole touched by anyone. It was his to touch and it was his private area. Of course when I assumed the leading role in our relationship and became the Female Authority, I couldn’t have him decide which part of the body I was allowed to touch. So I tied him to the bed, belly down, spread eagle, made sure he couldn’t escape, and tightened his wrist and ankle cuffs, and painfully stretched his arms and legs apart. I went into another room and came back with a strapon on my waist and a bottle of lube…his look on his face was priceless. That night he lost his virginity. I made damn sure to tell him that no part of his body was safe, and all of his body was mine
Pegging or strapon-training is a sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man by penetrating the man’s anus with a strap-on dildo.
Why I think that pegging is necessary in a FLR (Female Led Relationship) ?
I have 4 reasons:
A – a hetero-sexual man’s asshole is a private thing to a man, usually he’s the only one touching it, it’s rarely seen by others, even during sex with his woman he usually won’t show his butthole, he usually wont let a woman touch it, unless he’s a bit kinky. My slave-partner never had his butthole touched by anyone. It was his to touch and it was his private area. Of course when I assumed the leading role in our relationship and became the Female Authority, I couldn’t have him decide which part of the body I was allowed to touch. So a couple of weeks later, I tied him to the bed, belly down, spread eagle, made sure he couldn’t escape, and tightened his wrist and anklecuffs, and painfully stretched his arms and legs apart. I went into another room and came back with a strapon on my waist and a bottle of lube…his look on his face was priceless. That night he lost his virginity. I made damn sure to tell him that no part of his body was safe, and all of his body was mine
B – Do you know the phrase “He’s is the man of the house” ? Now you tell me, how can he be the man of the house, if he’s being fucking in the ass by Me? There’s is no better way to tell a man that he is My Bitch when I am fucking his ass hard and deep. It’s the ultimate role-reversal.
C – Not everyone will agree with me on this, but I noticed that after I started pegging him on a regular basis, he’s even more submissive than ever. Maybe it’s because I also want him to be quiet when I am fucking him hard. Let’s face it, it’s painfull for him, after a good trust with a dildo up your ass any man (or woman) will make some sort of sound. So every time he makes a sound, I will stop pegging and give him 10 firm cane-strokes on his ass or I take his balls in my hand and crush them. And I will continue caning and ballcrushing him until I only hear his breathing.
D – it’s good workout for me, I burn a lot of calories after an hour and a half of jamming a strapon up his ass. I feel my abs burning, and my legs
So I usually fuck him in the ass 2 or 3 times a week, he will always be tied up, because I like the view of helplessness, I will choose odd times to do it, and I will choose the duration.
In the outside world he’s 6 foot (1,80) 220 pound (100 kg) man’s man with a “Don’t fuck with me” look, but at home I will make damn sure to trample his masculinity into oblivion…whe he comes home…he’s my BITCH!
When we are outside nobody suspects he is a submissive man who obeys my every word. We are a normal couple enjoying each other’s company, we dine, we dance, we kiss, we make fun, we watch a movie, we stroll on a beach, we get drunk and we act crazy.
But that doesn’t mean that he can behave how he wants to. Whenever he does something I don’t like, I will whisper in his ear “You will be punished when we come home…”. His reaction is always priceless, suddenly his eyes show fear, sometimes he doesn’t even know what he did wrong, but he will stop doing what he was doing, and change his behavior immediately. He will never argue with me at that moment, he won’t ask what he did wrong, because I will explain him everything at home, and I will punish him at home, and I will repeat what he did wrong, and I will make him repeat what he did wrong, and he will apologize afterwards on his knees for every mistake he made while kissing my feet.
My favorite misbehavior must be when I catch him watching other women. Let’s face it, men are immensely visual creatures, they can’t help themselves, it’s built in their brains.
Whenever I spot his eyes on a woman, and he takes too long to watch something else, I will whisper in his ear my famous words “You will be punished when we come home…”. His reaction is predictable as usual. He will get nervous, and try to act cool, he will offer me a drink to distract me, he will stop looking into my eyes. And I will keep looking at him, and enjoying every moment of it. I won’t get angry or upset, because I will have my revenge later when we get home.
That’s why I like to go to a salsa-parties. There are plenty of women who know how to move, they dress nicely, and there are lots of good looking ladies. It’s a scientific proven fact, that he will get in trouble all the time.
When we come home, he will open the door for me, take my coat, get on his knees to get my shoes or boots off. He will go to the bedroom, and get completely undressed. He is always naked around me in the house. From the moment I told him he was in trouble until we get home, I will be contemplating the ways I will punish and torture him. It’s like foreplay and it turns me on like a neon light. Looking at other women is considered by me as a severe transgression and will be met with a severe punishment. It usually consists of inescapable bondage in uncomfortable and painful positions for a good period of time combined with a good whipping and face slapping and other pain stimuli. I will always end the punishment with him repeating his mistakes on his knees face down on the floor. Then he will lie on his back, kissing the soles of my feet and apologizing many many times.
So why is it that I like to punish him severely for watching other women? Is it because I lack self-confidence? Is it because I think I am ugly? Is it because I am afraid to lose him to another woman? I can honestly say that none of these reasons are applicable to me. I am over 40 years old, but I like the way I look, I am fit, I look younger (you know the phrase Black don’t crack?), I have the body of a 20-year old dancer. I also know for a fact that my slave-partner adores every inch of me. He is seriously attracted to me as a woman emotionally, to the way I look, the way I move, the way I dance, the way I dress and with an added bonus he is also attracted to my dominance.
So why is it that I like to hurt him for watching other women? Well the reason is little more devious than all the jealousy and lack of self-confidence crap I mentioned before. I even don’t mind him looking at other women, I mean if Mother Nature has done a great job on a woman, why shouldn’t one look at art. I am a woman and even I enjoy watching a sexy confident woman dancing or walking by.
I just enjoy the invisible leash on his neck I am holding firmly when we are outside. I just love the way he tries so hard not to look at other women when I am around. Whenever a good looking woman is near, you will see him turn his face the other way, and I love every bit about it. While other people think that he’s just not interested in the other woman, I am the only one who knows the real reason why he is turning his face away from any gorgeous woman in his vicinity. If we are at a party, you will see his eyes go through the room and he will skip all the beautiful ladies automatically. I like to get him in trouble by asking him, wow isn’t that woman sexy and hot. I will see him struggling with the answer, any answer he will give me is wrong anyway. If he says no, I know he’s lying because I know his taste, if he says yes, he’s in trouble. He will try to give me a diplomatic answer. I just love his struggling. I will return his diplomatic answers with more questions like “she has a great ass, doesn’t she?”. And he will sink deeper and deeper in trouble, until the only way out is another severe punishment at home.
One of the good things of being the Female Dominant in a relation, is I don’t have to listen to my slave’s drama. He came home pissed off at his co-workers, pissed off at the traffic, pissed off at some asshole who cut him off….blah blah…I really don’t care…
So I slapped his face a couple of times…and told him that he forgot the rules when entering my home…First I want a nice and good hug with some nice and passionate kissing, then he’s supposed to get naked, and after that he needs to kiss my feet.
So since he likes to use his mouth today, I ordered him to get the strap-on, the flexible one, and some cuffs. I cuffed his hands behind his back, ordered him to kneel in front of the couch, put on my strap-on, and sat on the couch comfortably. I told him “You’re going to use your mouth the right way now…start sucking my dick..”.
He took the strap-on in his mouth and started to suck on it, I know he doesn’t like this, because he knows what I am going to do next. I will grab the back of his head and start pulling his face towards me and bury the strap-on in his mouth until it completely disappears, all 20 cm (8 inches) of it. When the strap-on has disappeared completely in his mouth…that’s when the cuffs and my upper body strength come to good use. He starts to gag, and he tries to escape my grip I have on his head…but he can’t escape, and that’s how I like it…
Finally a music video with proper BDSM in it.
Watching a program about people with OCD cleaning the houses of people with dirty homes.
My mind starts to wonder how it would be to have a cleaning slave with OCD. My first thought would be…the house would be super clean with a slave like that.
But thinking a bit more, I am starting to see issues with that.
A cleaning slave with OCD would clean everything without me being able to criticize his work. What’s the fun in that, I want to be able to say: You missed a spot, and then whip him until he begs me to stop. Some Mistresses say that they don’t need a reason to punish, and I agree with that, but I do like to have reason, it makes the punishment more humiliating.
The other thing that would bother me, a slave with OCD would internally start to freak out whenever I make something dirty, and he would rush to clean it, he couldn’t help it. I would feel uncomfortable with that kind of anxiety, even though I could lock him up. I like a calm vibe in my house, I am sensitive to people’s vibes even submissive ones. I would feel his anxiety and probably kick him out of my home.
I luv it when my slave is cleaning the house naked…I particularly enjoy making a mess right after he cleaned it, so he can start over again…
And I especially like it when he screws up…he tries so hard not to screw up…but I always find something he did wrong…
And since I don’t want troubles with copyright and stuff…the pics are not mine and they are from Foot domination